I have been known to be the guys girl. I have several male friends and always have. I am cool, laid back, not hard on the eyes (toot toot), love football, fond of the random pointless cuss word and can even toss them back with the best of them. This was a bit of problem in high school which was often perceived as being more than it was which made girls play on my phone and whisper behind my back. Now 15 years later I am still comfortable with men and love to be around them. Most of my male/guy friends have been around since high school (circa 1994). We have grown up, apart and together again in this time. Several are in relationships, some are married or just involved but point is I know my role in their lives. I try to be as respectful as possible often introducing myself to their others when possible. I like to ensure them that I am not that chick and that I know my place. I do my best to never confuse what our friendship is but do try to be a good friend. I do not do a bunch of calling, texting or asking for time. I do randomly check in via text, call and sometimes facebook (if we are allowed to be friends on the book).
All of this to say...
I need my friend's girlfriends, wives, baby mommas, main chicks, jump offs, chicks that think that they are #1, cuddle buddies, f-partners, one night stands etc to ALL play their roles and stay in their lanes. I need them to go to their dude when they believe that they have a problem. I need them to stay off my phone, out of my text messages and my fb inbox with the BS. CHECK YOSELF! I need these broads to not be grown doing the same mess that was not even ok in high school. CHECK YOSELF! I need these so called women to grow up and stop being so insecure that they feel the need to play on the phone and inquire about their male companion. I need them to realize that all of this keeping track of a man is not worth it and that some women do not feel obligated to play this game of check up. CHECK YOSELF! I do not wish to play this game and I would so sincerely appreciate it if women that are oh so insecure, women that are not completely involved,, women that are mothers and should be taking care of their children oppose to screening calls/ text messages, forwarding his phone calls to her phone so that they can keep track of all his comings and going, who he is conversing with and why. Who actually has time for that? CHECK YOSELF!
You better check yo self before you wreck yo self - I cannot appreciate the foolery and just needed to get this bit off my chest.