Head. Give. Get. Take. Ask or Not.
DISCLAIMER: This
is a touchy subject and I thought long and hard (no pun intended) about
stimulating this conversation amongst adults but I deem it necessary. Again, this is only one interpretation that
should offer some assistance and thought to all parties. Some will agree and others will disagree –
all are ok and accepted. This is a two
sided conversation and is more than the initial attention grabber. Please take into consideration that this
conversation is meant for mature adults that can handle all verbiage being
used. Thank you and shall we proceed.
Speak
into the mic, just kiss it or lick it a little bit, puff the pipe – it won’t
make you choke, say hello to my lil friend (yes some are smaller than others),
blow the whistle, it won’t get hard if you don’t help it out, or simply can I get some head? All said while trying to guide head to head. I am sure that there are several ladies that
could create a list that would both be ridiculous and ironic. It is amazing the things that some men come
up with saying in order to get some “head”.
I do not understand some men’s desire or need to ask for some head,
penis suckage or fellatio.
There is nothing
wrong with a little head. We all like to
receive it but honestly we don’t all like to give it. Most importantly there are women that don’t
always think that it is the sexiest thing to do. Some like it, love, adore it, can’t stand it
and would rather just do it regular.
Generally the point of us hooking up would be for enjoyment unless you’re
selfish which many are (both sides). It
should not have to be negotiated after all, we all profess to be adults right?
Don’t get me wrong I get it. I
understand that it feels good and possibly looks very sexy to feel the warmth
and wetness along with the softness of her lips along your man muscle. The
pleasure of laying back, relaxing and not having to take control of the sexual
situation. I get it. I also understand that is a part of sex and
yes I like it done to me of course when done correctly. Both, like less biting and teeth used – we
agree. However, question is why ask or why are you ok with asking for some
head?
For
some, oral sex is more intimate than actual intercourse and is a bigger leap of
faith. After all its all right there and
it’s your mouth and we both… well, we will just say that it is something to
think about if you are a not so clean person.
We don’t always ask the necessary questions outside of are you disease
free. Does she brush her teeth or take
care of her mouth – does he use soap and clean down under his balls? And vice versa. I mean really – we all need
to be a bit more selective and more concerned.
The world is a very crazy place these days. {JUST A THOUGHT – you cannot
suck or lick on every or anybody}. Then
there is the matter of what am I getting out of the deal especially if we are
not a long term situation? Seriously,
after you nut, if you get to that point, do you have come back, is that it,
will you be returning the favor and do you expect this all the time? I would
like to believe that it can be more of the preliminary step, a kind of foreplay,
rather than the main event and it’s not always done accordingly but each and
every situation is different. Govern
yourself according.
Just
a few thoughts that run through mind quickly after the initial inquiry but my
main point of thought is, Why are you
even asking? I don’t get
that. It seems like if it is going to
happen it’s going to happen and it should not be expected but moreso
appreciated. If we are random to each other or not necessarily exclusive what
makes it be necessary. After all if it
didn’t automatically happen, what makes you think that you are worth the
service? Now, I don’t want to hurt any feelings
or even offend anyone but did you consider that this service is given to some
and only a privilege to others or that you just don’t meet the desire. A woman will initiate her desires, please
believe – have you thought about that?
Have you ever sat back and considered the willingness of some and the
reluctance of others. Think about it!!! I have often wondered if the inquiry comes
from a selfish a place or is it one of those activities that should be added to
my resume under the skill section.
Should a chick be flattered that you thought of her enough to ask her to
suck you off or get you started? Should she
feel privileged that you say that she is so good that you just want it all the
time? Should she think that it is in the
best interest of her health and womanhood to proceed or that you may not
attracted otherwise? When you ask do you
consider that you may be taking the joy or desire from her? Do you even think with your actual head
before asking for head?
It’s
funny that this seems to be an ongoing debate or even a conversation that is
always not agreed upon. It’s one of
those touchy subjects that is sometimes felt uncalled for or uncivilized. Us all being grown has nothing to do with
giving or even receiving. It is the
comfort to all parties involved. The real
inquiry here is we don’t all think about what we are doing before we do
it. We do not always take into
consideration the reactions to our actions.
Like a man once told me pouting, sulking and dropping hints are not good
strategies when you don’t get your way.
True gratification is mental so please give it some head.
