Relationships do not just happen. No matter how we meet our mate or who makes the introduction, we create all the relationships we experience. We each have the capacity to bring ourselves the exact relationship we want. Unfortunately, most of us are not willing to do the work. We must begin the work by looking at the "self" and getting clear about how it feels. We cannot expect to attract a loving, generous mate if we are angry and withholding. We must stop blaming the past for our condition now. Wherever we are, what we have or don't have is no one's fault but our own. If by chance someone else made a contribution to the mess we were creating, forgive them the mess and move on. Finally, we must give thanks for all we have been; all we have had; all we are becoming. When we take the limits, restrictions and fears off our hearts, our cup of love will run over.
Today's Mantra: I will look at me before I look for love.