Never allow
someone to be your PRIORITY while
allowing yourself to be their OPTION
– Mark Twain
I
have been guilty of this more than a few times in my 32 years. I am a giver and even more of a people
pleaser. It has gotten me in trouble in
my past but those were CBE (character building experiences). Once upon a time I wasn’t as comfortable in my
own skin. I didn’t recognize my own self
worth. I allowed other’s desires be my
own. There was a time when I wanted to
be more of what they wanted opposed to what I was. It was my priority to please. When things changed and I came into myself
and made me more of the PRIORITY – it all just felt real good.
In
my OPTION state, I have cared more for some than I did myself. I love hard, completely and unconditionally. I would go so far as to say that I fall in
love with the concept of love first and then all the possibilities. When I have fallen for the person I give and
give and give. I make myself
available. The kind of available that
sometimes spurs late nights and early mornings followed by empty dwellings
though he is just not ready to be exclusive to me. The kind of available that when He is not inthe mood for SHE, HE will call ME.
I’ve seen it with
people that I love and care about. They
allow themselves to be disrespected, belittled, and unhappy for the attention
of someone else. They love without the
same kind of loving in return. In this
instance they allow themselves not to be their PRIORITY. It's all easier said than done. I suppose we all play the fool sometimes. I guess we live and learn but this quote is always a reminder.
2 comments:
Freckles, you mean to tell me that you're really going to listen to what some dude named Mark Twain said???
Just kidding. Lol.
Great advice, good reminder.
its always a good reminder. mark was wise and somewhat crazy but this is one of the most wonderful things her ever said. It makes you think.
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