Saturday, September 15, 2012

Random Relationship Reflection...

Single folks need to stay out of the business of married folks business.  Married folks dont need to advise single folks on being single just as the single advising the married how to be married.  It is easy for a single person to find or see flaws in a relationship that doesnt belong to them.  Some single people continually find fault and unsolicitly advise some married people as to what they believe that they should do in their marriage.  Married folks need to stay out of the business of marriend folks too
Relationships arent always fantastical.  They take work - a lot of dedication.  There will be rough times, need for compromise, possibly some agree to disagree.  This is within any relationship.  It is easy for one to tell other something that they need to do to better their situation with not much regard to what makes them qualified to do so. Just my thought.
 
 

4 comments:

Daddy Squeeze Me! said...

I can agree for the most part. I think that single people must keep in mind that you can not just up and leave your husband like you can a boyfriend or someone you are just dating. They need to understand that in marriage, you need to be a problem solver, not a runaway. As far as them giving singles advice, i would say they must keep in mind that the dating game is always changing. You cant give them advice based off of how you once knew men were before you were married. You can only give advice to the person who is looking for love based on what you know of them.

Freckles said...

exactly. that is very true. I am so glad that you felt my vent. Married folks do need keep in mind that things change all the time but I think it is more in the manner in which they desire to advise.

thanks for reading...

Reggie said...

This is true, so very true.

DianaBoss said...

If someone is not being psychically abused I mind my own damned business. I may listen, be like "Girl he did what?!" but you will never here me give any real advice. Nope. Not my business. Most people honestly know what they should/should not be doing anyway.

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