Merry 38 (It's my birthday)

So, It's my birthday and I cannot help but to have mixed emotions caressing my brain.  The last

couple of months have been a lot of transition and change which are not really there same things. There are levels to these emotions.  Serious Levels.

I am so blessed and I truly do not want to take any moment for granted or not be ever so appreciative to all the wonderful things that have transpired.  I am married to one of the dopest and he is so in love with me.  It is really rather awesome and it is all that I have every truly wanted.  Being able to know that God is so real has been fantastical.  I never would have been ready before now.  He definitely readied this man just for me.  I actually married before 49 too.  #winning

However I cannot ignore the emptiness that is still a present reality.  I miss my family and my breezies.  The breezies are my hometown crew.  The friends that have truly become family.  They are the women that I have spent my birthday with for the last few years and the women that have had my back (for the most part).  My loves, my companions and my _____.  It had been quite the transition without them.  We all lived fairly close and very convenient. Not too mention, I tend to have the best functions with them all included.  They all seemed to assist wherever. It is just different but it is not in the wrong way.  It is all just very different and I am not completely sure how to handle all of these feelings.  It is truly a conflict.

i am so blessed to make it here.  I am in such a different season and there has been some real adulting happening but I am so grateful to be able to go through life with him.  I am thankful to be his wife and his friend.  We had a birthday drink at  midnight.  We sat back and talked and hella laughed.  It was so simple yet to special.  We are so cool.  We just chill.  I love that about us and just really having a friend in my boo.  It feels real good.

I am grateful to look back upon life and see the growth that has transpired.  I am a good woman with room to grow but I am a good woman nonetheless.  I am a good friend, sister, daughter and wife even stepmother (I will revisit this at some point).  i am proud of the woman that I am striving to become.  It is pretty cool.

I do not have too many plans today but I figure that i am going to go to dinner but we are planning a little function this weekend to celebrate which is definitely something to look forward to.  A time to be able to be social and possibly see some folks that I haven't had an opportunity to see since I have been back.  There are some faces that I am looking forward to seeing and hope that they show up.  We shall see.  Ia m trying to muster some excitement.

Cheers to 38...

1 Week at 33

So I totally planned to do a week of posts last week around my birthday but yeah that so didnt happen.  It was one of those weeks where I just couldnt catch up no matter how much I tried.  I thought that Monday's post was good - Reinventing the Woman I was in my 20s.  I am so thanksful for growth.  I am glad that I look back at her and see where I am now - 33 and fabulous with some flaws but fabulous nonetheless.

 

TUESDAY, OCTOBER 2, 2012 - My 33rd Birthday was spent well.  I went to work all cute and such.  I had a customer bring me some smell good because she said I was her favorite fashionista and she heard me tell someone it was my birthday.  I thought that it was nice.  One of my co-workers bought me some Tequila (my libation of preferance). A group of friends met up at a lounge for food and drinks (Taco Tuesday) and I drank and drank and drank.  My girl is a bartender at the GS (sportsbar/lounge/club-esque) and she totally took care of me and I drank this birthday coctail all night and she kept them coming.  I drank in 33 looking pretty awesome and my shoes were HAUTE (hoping to have a plan for them at a later date - stick a pin in that we will come back to it at another posts, maybe).  My girls were there and my sister.  I was happy.  Very happy.  Honestly, I look forward to a time that I have a man in my life to spend my birthday with doing something special but this birthday was special as it was and I felt good just be me with my folks.

 

Now I will say that going to work the next day was all sorts of sloooooow motion.  I drug through the day happy and very slow.  I even wore all black for the occasion.  Everyone felt my good time and NO I did not call earl - not my style but there was a moment when I wish that would have to rid the nausea.  I went to bed fairly early for me but moreso because on Thursdays I go to work early in the AM (5am to be exact) and stayed until 3pm so it was a long day.

 

One of my favorite people came to town.  She lives in San Diego so not that far but came up for some stroll down memory lane as we attended our high school homecoming game which is always a good time.  Its nice to see folks that you havent seen in a while and be seen while seeing what you can see.   The rest of the weekend was spent just simply relaxing.

 

Again, thank you all for all the birthday love.  It is so appreciated and means alot to me. 

 

Happy Birthday to all the LIBRAS out there.

ITS MY BIRTHDAY!!! (TUESDAY)

ITS MY BIRTHDAY!!!

 

October 2 Birthday

YOUR SIGNS - Libra.

YOUR ELEMENT - Air.

YOUR RULERS - Venus, Saturn, 

October 2  Birthday interpretation.

The element of air holds a strong influence in relation to this October 2 Libra birth date and, as result, can indicates an individual who is not only a good conversationalist, but also one who is likely to have excellent communication skills.

You could be a good researcher in that, by your very October 2 nature, you are the type of person who will, once you have gained an interest in a subject or something, will determinedly pursue every aspect in great detail order to find out everything that you want to know about it. You are one who can dig out the slightest clue to whatever you are searching for, and then to be able to follow up on it until it materializes in the form of results. As an October 2 birth date you are endowed with the ability to be able to identify, and to see clearly, the wider implications of your own experiences and then, to be able to share the reality of that knowledge with others in a wide reaching manner. As an example these can be the skills of a writer, and in this respect you could quite possibly have a career or vocation path in the field of journalism.

The October 2 can become highly charged at times, and especially so on those occasions where you are faced with too many matters and/or decisions to deal with at the same time. You mind can become over active with all sorts of thoughts and possibilities, many of which may never actually materialize in any way. At other times, you can be quite calm and able to dismiss those more volatile mental thoughts and activities. It is under these circumstances you will find that you will become able to comfortably engage in some of your more favorite activities. It is when you can be alone, and at total peace with yourself, that you will find that the answers to your questions or problems of the time. They will tend to seemingly materialize out of your mind, and provide you with the right answers and courses of action that you need to take. 

As an October 2, you are endowed with friendly pleasant nature, a fair share of personal decisiveness, and a good charisma.  Other aspects associated with this day can indicate some major upheavals in life, but in the main, when related to this particular birth date, this could take the form of significant life challenges such as important trips or journeys (business or otherwise), or a move of home and family to another place.  Yours is a path in life of cultivating and developing the strength of your personality through curiosity, investigation, research and self- expression. This will necessitate you in utilizing your self-confidence in day- to-day affairs, with the view and intention of developing your wider potentials in life.  As example, through your dedication and involvement in what might mistakenly be termed the routine circumstances of life, you are on a day-by-day basis building a better world about you through the development of your strength of character, and that of your personal integrity.

35 Before 35 - Update

Tomorrow is my 33rd birthday so I am on a mission to get these all done in the next 2 years

35 BEFORE 35

1.                  Get a new passport – I plan on doing this as soon as possible.  I have some big plans and it is necessary to have.

2.                  Hookah Lounge

3.                  Step Class (ole school Chicago stepping)

4.                  See Jill Scott in Concert again (she is amazing and I love her).  It would be awesome to see her in Philly and then go to an Eagles game (perfect)

5.                  Go to a Eagles game in Philly

6.                  Host a wine tasting event

7.                  Go on a cruise – stamps on my passport

8.                  Vacation with my girls – a real girlfriend getaway

9.                  Host a brunch start to finish at my house (garden party) – I love to cook so I want to plan the menu, decorate, make real invitations – the full event (I’m crafty).

10.             Build my savings

11.             Attend the Essence Festival and actually attend the concerts

12.             Develop a creative business for myself that I will actually grow

13.             Put a dent in my student loans – That awesomely wonderful  HBCU education is/was expensive

14.             Complete my book(s) and publish them

15.             Move out of Los Angeles again (improve my quality of life by growing up)

16.             Vacation with a man that I love (hopefully but we shall see – this is an entire post of its own)

17.             Start bartending again – I miss it.  I miss the social aspect the intensity and if you don’t use it you lose it)

18.             Stay involved with my Alumni Association (Fisk University)

19.             See a Broadway Show in NY

20.             Take a craft class (possibly beading)

21.             Build another scrapbook of something monumental event

22.             Purchase a fantastic pair of Designer shoes

23.             I would like to be married or at least engaged

24.             Visit some of my blog buddies or at least one (there are a couple that I would like to meet in person – they already know who they are)

25.             Go Camping with all the specialties. I am not really and outdoorsy chick but I have had some conversations that make it sound fun.  It will be a group outing that I will have to coordinate.  I am getting kind of excited about it.

26.             Learn more about wine and sangria

27.             Start sewing (using the machine that I already have for real – I need to make something good.  My mom has these awesome patterns from the 70s when she made all her clothing.  I admire that about her.  She tried to teach me when I was younger but I lacked interest).

28.             Take my mother and grandmother on a vacation

29.             Road Trip by way a Diners, Drive in and Dives – I love Guy

30.             Ride in  Hot Air Balloon with someone special

31.             Grow a garden.  Not truly my thing but I hear that it is relaxing.

32.             Sky Dive

33.             Become more involved with Diabetes Prevention Charity

34.             Visit Daddy’s grave – still haven’t been.  I need to make that happen.

35.             Convince my friends to hold me to this list.

reinventing the woman that I was in my 20's

My birthday is tomorrow and I am almost excited.  I love birthdays - they are a blessing.  Right before my birthday I generally do an inventory of my life and get my goals in order and remind myself of where we have come from.  Not that kind that makes you feel all woe is me but the kind that makes me appreciate His hand over my life. Getting a year older tends to have this affect on me.  Stroll with me a sec.  The reflection is good because there are times when I feel stagnant and complacent but when I look over my life, I feel pretty good about the woman that I am becoming in my 30s oppose to my 20s.

 My 21^st birthday was on a Monday and it was a drunken stupor of a night.  It was my introduction to Jagermeister and I didn’t call Earl – ha.  I graduated from the illustrious Fisk University and thought that I was way grown which I now know is way overrated.  My 25th birthday was spent in Vegas with people that were for a season.  that trip is a bit of blur but there were pictures and I looked as if I had a great time.  It was a good time but all of my 20s were not spent fully in love with me and I took myself through some situations that were not completely healthy or happy.   Looking back I see that they were necessary for me to be broken down for a breakthrough.  Sometimes God takes out of comfort to bring you into contentment.

Somewhere along the way I lost me and thought I wanted and needed to be more than I was.  I was captivated by quantity instead of quality.  I felt that needed to please and be what others thought of me instead of being honest and true to myself.  There were people hurt and somewhat betrayed by the façade that was me but no one more than me.  It was never really about them but about me and it took me a long time to get to that point but I am so grateful that I did.  I grew up and dealt with me directly.  God has such a sense of humor.  I purely, honestly and directly asked Him to show me, me – the good, the bad and the ugly and boy did He.  There were things that I hadn’t truly understood about myself or even noticed to be flawed.   There were issues that I didn’t know were issues.  There were strengths that I believed to be weaknesses and vice versa.  In my broken down state when I felt that my world was over, that moment where everything that had made me be what I thought I wanted to be was stripped away and the multitudes were gone – I saw me and my ways.  The woman that God had not ordained me to be and woman that I couldn’t be proud of regardless of all the accomplishments.  There was just me to deal with and to be honest with and become reacquainted with.  I needed to learn to look in the mirror and like the person who looked back at me.  So I did and it was not easy and there were some very rocky moments but I made it.  I found a place of contentment.  I learned to be honest with who I am and truly striving to be.  I learned that I was pretty damn awesome without all of the foolishness of what others thought or wanted me to be.  I fell in love me.

At 30, I was faced with new challenges and character building experiences that I haven’t completely recovered from.  My daddy died, lost my job and my car.  My stability was rocked but in a complete different direction as before which brought about the same thought provoking self reflection.  I learned that I had a PRIDE issue that almost kept me from helping me help me get though.  Thankfully I had some really good friends in my life at the time (thanks KBCVD).  With all the life changes I moved back to LA filled with a spirit of failure with a side of grief, guilt, sadness, heartbreak and uncertainty.  It’s funny how a proclamation made would smack me in the face.  I never thought that I would move back when I left.  I was surely not the same which wasn’t a bad thing.  It just was.  I didn’t have very much established here and life has a way of going on with or without you around.  My relationships were different while other no longer existed.  Luckily, FB connected me with some restored and recreated friendships.  God will always give you who and what you need with you need.  I am truly grateful for some of these relationships/friendships/associations.

Even though I am no where I would like to be, want to be or thought I should be in my life..  I’m in a good place in my 30s and better than my 20s.  I’m just grateful for where I came from and thankful to where I am going.

31 was my 10^th anniversary celebration of my 21^st birthday, 32 was Birthday Backyard Boogie and 33 will be…. Full of Cocktails and possibly a sipper at my house – possibly.

 

 

The Celebration of the 10th Anniversary of My 21st Birthday

THEME: 10th Anniversary of My 21st Birthday = 31

As I stated last week.  My birthday was Saturday, October 2 and I meant to post but I didn't - my bad.  I had a wonderful birthday.  My day began with a wonderful conversation with my bestie.  Then I spent the rest of the morning watching movies and conversing with mi Madre.  She is awesome.  I was glad that we had that time together because I felt me going into that I miss my daddy and he isn't here for another birthday moment once I looked in the mirror.  She didn't know this but it was constantly on my mind and her timing was impeccable.  She helps me through these meltdowns more than she knows.  I love the time that we spend together just conversing on all sorts of subjects.  This go around we both were rather emotional.  LIFE just always has a way of happening and becoming rather overwhelming but we have each other in this journey, as well as GOD guiding us and I believe that my daddy is watching over us too. 

I have FB coming to my phone as text and it became almost annoying but I love seeing who thought enough of me to wish me many more.  The phone just kept going off all day though and I was rather tempted to take the text subscription off - BUT OF COURSE I got over it!!!  Not too mention, I was paying attention to who was contacting me.  I was sort of expecting to hear from some certain people. 

Then this wonderful senior couple from my church called and asked to come by.  Honey, as we infectiously call her, bakes the most amazing Lemon cake that you have almost ever tasted in your life.  I put in a request several weeks ago and she remembered.  She and her husband came by and sang happy birthday to me which was super sweet!!!  I love them and they have a special something for me which is such a blessing.  You should always have wise counsel on your team.  It is the best way to learn.

I sort of just relaxed and had a few people bring by some gifts which was a pleasant surprise.  I love gifts but of course who doesn't.  I ran a few errands with one my girlfriend's to help her find something to wear for my party and ended up finding an amazing dress for she and one for myself, unexpectingly.  I was planning to wear something I had that I'd never worn and hadn't been able to fit prior to my weight loss and lifestyle change. Then I came across the dress for a bargin and even found a pair of shoes for another bargain that matched the dress.  Though it was not my intention to buy something - I went for it and it was

PERFECT!!!

I relaxed in preparation of my party and sent out some directions as well as confirmations.  Once we got to the establishment I WAS ON... I looked great, felt great and was so overwhelmingly happy with the turn out of friends that shared in my special day. Every showed up looking absolutely SEXY in our sexy environment.  We had our own personal bartender/waiter - SAM, who was so on it.  He took care of us and he said we took care of him.  You have got to be pretty awesome when the bartender buys you a couple of rounds of cocktails - YAY ME!!!  It was a great time full of Raspberry Lemon Drops. 13 to be exact.  folks just kept buying them and I kept drinking them.  I did go into my youth and drank like I was 21 but this go around I kept it sessi (Sexy) ...

It was a great birthday and I have to say that I am blessed in spite of... Last year was tough and turning 30 wasn't as wonderful as this birthday being my father's death was so fresh.  I am thankful that I can feel and see my strength this year compared to last year.  I have had some emotional moments since my birthday but I am still in celebration mode.  I miss him.  I miss him so much and I really wish that I could see him see the woman that I am becoming.  I am just thankful that now I feel him more than I did my last birthday. 

So, I toast my thankful birthday spirit to my parents. 

My mother for being good to me and keeping me. 

Daddy Freckles who I continue to look more like everyday.  I see him in me. 

I will drink to that.

It's My Birthday Eve!!!

 I am going to take it easy tonight and get it right for tomorrow.  I will keep yall posted.  Shout out to my friend that gave me this really awesome bottle of wine.

Random Birthday Freckle Facts

Birthdays. I love them.

I have every card that my grandmother has ever given me for my birthday – every single birthday. She is so amazing.  She always picks the best cards.

When I was 10 had my first major slumber party. I got so excited that I made me sick. It was the first time that I remember really throwing up. Gross but true. After I was finish being sick I felt better that the night went on without a hitch.

There were two things that I wanted for my 15 birthday – to date boys and a pager. I got them both. I had my first actual he came to pick me up from my house with my mother actually agreeing to it date on my 15 birthday and I got a pager. My cake was blue, purple and white.

I still have my sweet 16 necklace that my mother gave me.

I LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVE CAKE!!! It makes me happy. I do prefer the frosting to be either butter cream or whipped. I do not care for much frosting. I am a fan of cake with strawberries in it. You can never go wrong with chocolate.

I turned 18 while in college. The day went by and no one in my dorm said happy birthday for the most part. I was really feeling some kind of way but whatever I had only known these people for a couple of months. My mom sent me the best birthday box which was exciting. Right before we went to dinner someone came to my room and asked me to help them in our little kitchen and they were all in there and yelled surprise. They had a cake and they all gave me lots of cards. Several of us caught a taxi to a club that weekend to celebrate. It was great and I will never forget it.

I love balloons though I never really get them for my birthday.  When I was in college my mom always sent me one in the package.

I love, love, love birthday cards.  They makes me smile and I keep them all...  I have a couple of files boxes full of cards given to me (though there are more than just birthday cards in the boxes).

I turned 21 on a Monday, October 2, 2001. This was my senior year in college and it was a MONDAY. I was working at the local T.G.I.Friday’s and the managers suggested that I just have my friends have drinks there. It was a win/win. Not to mention he had a little thing for me which made it cool. So, it went around quickly and the bar packed up. I recall having a drink on each table with friends. I would sip that drink as I made my rounds at each table chit chatting with the people. That night my bestie agreed to order all my drinks as she thought she was a professional. LOL. That night I drank a ridiculous amount of alcohol. The last thing that I recall was the 3 jagerbombs that I had. After that it is a bit of a blurrrrrrrrrrrr.  thankfully I still graduated 7 months later. Shout out to Fisk Univeristy!!!

My 23 birthday that same bestie flew to LA and my mom drove us all to Vegas in a PT Cruiser. It was her first time and it was wonderful. My bestie learned that my mother had a lead foot and I learned that she is not too fond of statues. WE ate, drank, gambled and saw the cowboy (inside joke).

My friends took me to Vegas for my 25th birthday. There was a penis them (penis balloons, penis head band, penis boa and even a penis scavenger hunt. AGAIN, I consumed a ridiculous amount of alcohol and it is all a bit of a blur but this time there were pictures. Smh. My favorite is me sliding down some stairs because apparently I thought the stairs were moving. I had a huge smile on my face. So I guess I had a great time. I still don’t know who that guy was in the picture with me bent over smiling while he pretended to be spanking me. Craziness. LOL!

My 29th birthday I spent on a plane going to Lincoln Nebraska for work. I spoke to everyone on the phone and my co-workers got me a cheesecake and sang to me. I did get an email from my roommate sharing that she was giving a surprise party when I got back from Nebraska. I suppose I wasn’t supposed to be included in the email but it was a so sweet. It was a great shindig.

My 30th birthday was nice.  It was all about my FLIRTY30.  I had a dinner party at Legal Seafood with 15 of my close friends. They have the best LEGAL Sangria. It taste like fruit punch with a bit of a kick. They come in a large glass and I had 6 of them in 3 hours. I wore the cutest little jumpsuit that encouraged my cleavage and wore fantastic shoes. It was a good night but no birthday sex – ijs.

I am looking forward to a great story this year as I celebrate the 10th anniversary of my 21st birthday!!! Stay tuned.

Love, Like and Not a Fan

Love
As we all know – I love everything love (emotions, physical, mental, music, movies, books
These freckles – kind of dope and are apart me
Shoes (the higher the better)
Beach (one of the great things about being in LA is the beach. The relaxation of it, the sound, the feeling of freedom. Some God's good work.
Cards (I should own stock in Hallmark. All occasions.
Writing (it's my passion)
God, Family & Friends (of course)
Music – all kind sorts of music but I am huge R&B and Soul Music. I love the art of telling a good story through music
Books and Magazines
Football
All things chocolate: Bars, Ice Cream, Cake, Men
Potatoes (mainly French Fries - OMG)
		Like
		STUFF – all kinds of stuff. SMILE.
		Crafts (making earrings, sewing-working on advancing my skills, making pillows, gifts,
		Taking Pictures – I am the designated camera lady of the group. I like to be able to catch all the moments – any moment.
		Bright Colors (Orange, Yellow, Green, Red, Hot Pink (Fuchsia), Purple
		To cuss (say bad words). I know not very lady like but as soon as I was able, I did and do it on a regular. I am working on it somewhat.
		Body wash – got a strange obsession with all things that smell good
		Candles/ Oil Burners
		Jewelry (I cannot go anywhere without earrings)
				Not a Fan
				Gravy (it's just stupid)
				Judgmental people
				Men with bad teeth & shoes
				Holes in my clothes & shoes (not my kind of trend but to each her/his own).
				Stupidness.
				Oooh, sandal boots – not my thing.
				Cats (I am allergic and they are just not really all that great)
				Peep-toe flats
				1-ply toilet paper

Libra Woman (September 24 – October 23): It's my birthday week!!!

I am not too into astrology but I do believe that there is something to it.  The signs are generally point for the most part.  I have a buddy that is really into it and he was telling about some attributes according to my birth date - October 2.  He seemed to be point on for the most part.  So with that I thought that I would share some info that I searched and read along with my personal commentary.

Born under the sign of Libra, the sign ruled by Venus the goddess of love; the LIBRA woman is one who definitely searches for peace, quality, and justice in everything she does. [I am the peacemaker for the most part.  I do function well with conflict and really wants everyone to CALM DOWN and get along]  She is generally working to try to balance the oppositional forces that she senses exists all about her.[yes, constant battle to keep the balance]  Although her personal outlook is an unbiased one, she will often find herself involved in conflicting situations that will require her to seek resolutions.

In her own life, the Libra girl may find that there is a basic duality as one of her scales is usually leaning towards compromise while the other leans toward her getting her own way. [I try not to manipulate a situation but I do prefer my way but who doesn’t? I do attempt to always be fair but when I do not get my way, eeeew is what we will call that] The Libra woman must take caution and be aware of her tendency to put off, or avoid, that which seems uncomfortable. [yes, I am such a procrastinator. Ugh. such an ugly quality but again that is something that I am working, I so promise]

Positive personality trait- Libra

As they say, there’s a bit of man in a woman and woman in every man. Well, this holds true for a Libra girl. She can be as feminine as Goddess Venus herself, one moment and turn masculine, the other. [I am a very feminine girly girl. I like skirts, dresses, makeup, jewelry and stilettos. I am hardly ever flat unless you know me enough to be in my home. I don’t walk around with heels at home, well not all the time but that is a total other something. However I am a beer and chicken wings type of chick that loves football and as sad as it is to say I enjoy cussing and talking shit with the fellas. Smh.] This woman is clever and witty. [I would like to believe that it takes a very clever and witty person to write some of things that I write.] Her sharp intellect can floor anyone. [I will agree] She is fair in her judgments. She will take her own time to deliver just and impartial decision. She loves to debate on any given topic. And most of the times she’ll beat her opponent. The best part is she will accept other’s views if she is convinced. She will give you an honest point of view. However, she will do it in a diplomatic way. [I am a HUGE debater that likes to get my point across but I do listen to take in what someone’s point of view as well. I try to be as diplomatic as possible but to be honest I am not always successful] She will never bring emotions in the practical aspect of life. A Libra woman is very analytical and can analyze situations and people quite aptly. [Now as far as my emotions… Not so much. I generally lead with my emotions but there are times that I can put them on the back burner. I think that is part of my masculine aspect.] These girls are absolutely career-oriented and will usually work before and after marriage. [true.] She hates to be alone. [so true] Teamwork is her forte. [Absolutely, I am a team player]

Negative personality trait- Libra

A Libra woman takes a lot of time in taking a decision. [I am very indecisive. I am working on it but sometimes I have a hard time making up my mind. I go round and round about it] She will be ready to argue at a drop of a hat. [I can be but not very often. I just don’t really have the energy and I’m nice. I don’t like confrontation so I generally hold it and say nothing which is when my nice is taken for naïve or weak. Then there is a problem captain] This girl can go overboard with her ideals and the need to be fair. [yeah, rarely. I believe in the greater good] She might be too talkative at times. [duuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuude, I loooooooooooooooooooooooooove to talk and yes I go overboard but I am working on that. As of lately it is that I spend a lot of time alone so by the time I have someone to talk to I have so much to say and get out. Really]

Libra woman as a wife/lover- Libra Female Personality Trait

A Libra woman is a total romantic to the core. She will love, cherish and honor her man. She will gladly allow him to dominate her. She will take care of him. And all this will be done with graceful charm and famous Venus smile. Being suspicious is not her nature. She will never try to invade your privacy. She loves her freedom and expects her man to respect it too. She might splurge on expensive perfumes, chic clothes and classic music. She will be a true companion in crisis. Her man is her first priority in life. Of course, there will be too many arguments to be won with a Libra female. Most of the times she will do the talking. She is highly intellectual and her man has to match up to it. This woman can win anyone’s heart with her dimpled smile and pleasing manners. A Libra woman’s man has the prettiest female by his side when he goes to a party and the smartest friend when he is in any kind of trouble. [I COMPLETELY 100% AGREE WITH ALL OF THE ABOVE]

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